H. O. B. Y.
H. Can’t hear you
O. A little Louder
B. That’s Better
Y. ‘Cause You Got It.
And Repeat. This past weekend, I attended an event unlike any other. Drumroll please….. Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership’s Southern California Conference. Around 200 high school sophomores from San Diego, Imperial, Orange, and San Bernadino Counties, and around 75 staff members that include a lot of alumni, but also a lot of people dedicated to spending their time to make HOBY an even more magical place than it already is.
It all started about a year ago, when I (a scared sophomore) arrived at Concordia University, with a ton of teenagers screaming at me from mere feet outside my car’s windows. “SMILE!” “You are going to have the BEST weekend of your ENTIRE life!” These were only some of the phrases that were being screamed at me at decibel levels well past the threshold of pain as I settled into my new home for the next three days.
I proceeded to meet a group of around 10 people that I became extremely close with over the weekend. Our group, “Black Eyed Peas” ’repped our pride through cheers, songs, and just being really really loud. This leadership conference was unlike any other that I had attended. And I had been to quite a few by this time in my life. I think for me, it wasn’t really the things we were learning, or the ideas that we were introduced to, but more importantly – the amount of enthusiasm that EVERYONE seemed to posses.
I left HOBY empowered. I went home and proceeded to not only complete my 100 community service hours, but ended up with around 250 in a little less than a year. I decided that I was going to be involved with HOBY for the rest of my life, regardless of where it took me, and this is where we flash-forward to today.
This past weekend I came back to the wonderful world of HOBY at Concordia, this time, not as a student Ambassador, but as a Junior Counselor. And, as impossible as this sounds to me, I think that I have grown more as a person this time around, and I have learned, and been inspired so much by the amazing students that I have encountered.
I am amazed by how quickly these kids acclimated to the HOBY spirit, and how fast they realized that the only person not making a fool of themselves was the only one who looked like a true fool. I mean after only 24 hours, every single person of the 200+ people that were there, were doing things like this:
and this:
I mean the truth is, that life is only more exciting if you are ALIVE AWAKE ALERT and ENTHUSIASTIC. And that you can only do more good, and become a better leader if you truly put your all into everything you do.
The last night of the conference, almost every single ambassador came before every person at the conference, and shared a 5 minute story of their life, and how HOBY had changed it. Their transformations were obvious and amazing in that people who two days before had been too shy to tell you their name, were in front of 250 people speaking most eloquently for more than five minutes.
As much as HOBY changed my life last year, and made me realize these things, this year, I am inspired to volunteer more, lead more, and most importantly – help others realize that they too can do all of this and much much more.

